lesson to be learnt

stupid zhan wei make me wanna write this stupid blog...
haih...
here it goes...
recently there's this issue about housemates...

no toleration, no forgiveness and no cooperation = no communication = selfishness ...

living in one roof together is not easy...
no wander ppl say..
staying with stranger is better den staying with fren..
once u stayed together...
with no toleration, no cooperation, no communication and no forgivness..
problem will start coming...
and one good relationship will start to fade...

toleration..
if there's no toleration..
how can human live peacefully with each other?
no toleration = selfish..
because u don wanna accept wan ppl are willing to share...
and u cannot accept that ppl are right and u are wrong...
u juz care about wat will hapen to u, wat u can get but not thinking on other ppl point of view..
non of us human are totally same...

cooperation..
if there's no cooperation,
why not live alone?
for example..
doing housework..
if non of the housemates wans to clean the house...
and they jus keep making it a mess...
how comfertable will the living environment be?
have u ever think of that?
u're just waiting other ppl to clean,
waiting other ppl to co the work..
u are not under children anymore...
if u don wanna do housework.. hire a maid..
ur frens are not ur maid.. and u didnt pay them to do everything...
they don have the responsibility to do it...

forgivness..
if ones heart n mind is full of revenge..
remembering ppls mistake n fault..
he'll be living in a world full with wars..
everyday thinking about how to revenge..
thinking bout how to make other ppl's life miserable...
have u ever think back that when u do those things...
there will always be someone doing ti right back at u..
"buat baik dapat baik"
if u learn to forgive, ppl will also forgive u when u did something wrong..
open ur heart n see the world..
see diff ppl...
learn n adapt diff thing..
forgivness is not about giving out something..
its about giving and gaining..
i giv ur forgivness, u gain a knowledge, u gain a friendship...


when toleration and cooperation and forgivness dosnt come..
where will there be communication??..
u living ur own life not caring bout others, others living in their own life not caring bout urs..
u hate me, i hate u..
wats the point?
no one will be talking in peace anymore...



and selfishness is one of the worst thing on earth..
selfishness cause crime, ruin every good thing that a person could have..
eg, rapist rape juz to fulfill their own sexual thingy.. they never think of how ppl feel and how ppl suffer...
rober robs juz because they wan money to live a luxury life..
have they ever think of the money that they took might juz be some ppls everything?


living together is a lesson to be learn,
learning to tolerate, forgive, giv cooperation..
and most important,
learn to communicate..

we are not going to be under our parents care anymore..
we are one more step into the big world...
we have to learn to communicate in diff ways with diff ppl...
its just now about our ownself anymore...

when there's problem..
pls raise out and find solution togehter..
not just talking bad behind others..
thing will never get better if that's so...

we wan peace, we wan love and we wan friends..
think for others..
we human shares this earth..
not just u alone living on this earth..
and it will never be just u only.....